Gabriel Josipovici on the importance of touch

In my wanderings during my last trip to Dublin, Ireland, right before my screening at The Pearse Centre, I discovered The Douglas Hyde Gallery, housed in Trinity College’s Arts Building. It’s small but extremely thoughtful. I was particularly taken by its collection of books, many of them written by John Hutchinson, the gallery’s director. I bought some of the most beautiful ones, little gems that combine his thoughts on art, beauty and the ways in which he sees the world, with works of art. The first of these books, The Bridge, is filled with most of the ideals and principles he still embraces. In his own words, it’s “a set of notes, perceptions, and speculations… Threads appear and disappear; there are echoes and gaps; metaphors are mixed.”

Here is something I love from the book:

Gabriel Josipovici has written about how we might learn to feel at home in a world that is largely indifferent to our personal needs and wishes. He suggests that contentment and happiness may only be possible if we value *touch* over sight. Although sight seems to give us a sense of the wholeness of what we behold, it is only when we try to overcome distance and to *touch* the world that we become whole. If we depend on sight, which seems to offer us frictionless control of what we perceive, we may avoid some of the pains and uncertainties of living, but we will also lose our full involvement with life.

A Quran Khani

Yesterday I had a Quran Khani at my house. It’s a beautiful way of remembering and paying tribute to loved ones we have lost. The tradition involves getting friends and family together to read the entire Quran. Since reading the Quran is construed as a blessing, the collective blessings that attend finishing the Quran are sent, along with love and prayers, to those who have left us. Many of my Pakistani American friends found time, on a weekend, to join us and make all of this possible. They are some of the most extraordinary women I know. To the broader activist community out there, if you ever want to meet or talk to strong, accomplished and exceedingly kind and compassionate Muslim women, let me know. I can hook you up.

Weekend in NYC

Visited my son at his place of work in NYC, where he is doing an internship. So proud of him. What an incredibly hot and humid day to be schlepping around New York tho. The heat didn’t subside even at night.

my son's office buiding
my son’s office buiding
view from building
view from building

identity through art

haha! this was in 2005, 11 years ago. thx APAA (Asian/Pacific Islander/American Association of Greater Rochester) for producing the documentary “identity through art,” which included this interview. it was a prelude to much film and art making for me and a definitive divergence from finance and economics.

Clips from my interview for the doc “Identity Through Art” directed by Rehema Trimiew and produced by APA-Hip, 2005.

weekend in canada

what an amazing weekend in canada! i got to spend time with a dear friend from college and was blown away by her entire family’s warmth and hospitality. my mom and dad accompanied us, which made everything more special. i got to visit two of my cousins and their families, and my daughter got along beautifully with all her new found brothers and sisters. we attended the wedding of a wonderful young man whose parents are close rochester friends. throughout this trip, we enjoyed hakka chinese, chicken biryani, some serious barbecued meat, delicious homemade koftas and karhi, and pakistani mangoes that transported us back to lahore. my daughter got some gorgeous mehndi and bangles in order to celebrate the first weekend after eid and we got to try doubles (a sandwich made with flat fried bread filled with curried chick peas – popular street food in trinidad and tobago) as well as bolani (fried or baked afghan naan with a vegetable or ground beef filling). thank u to all the lovely family and friends we met on this super busy trip, especially our generous hosts. my only regret is that i didn’t take more pictures.

mehndi

wedding

family and friends