dropped off the baby back to college last night. today we will walk around nyc.

dropped off the baby back to college last night. today we will walk around nyc.

delicious thai food this weekend and a get together with beautiful friends.

Wesley Morris: Without improvisation, a listener is seduced into the composition of the song itself and not the distorting or deviating elements that noise creates. Particular to black American music is the architecture to create a means by which singers and musicians can be completely free, free in the only way that would have been possible on a plantation: through art, through music — music no one “composed” (because enslaved people were denied literacy), music born of feeling, of play, of exhaustion, of hope.
What you’re hearing in black music is a miracle of sound, an experience that can really happen only once — not just melisma, glissandi, the rasp of a sax, breakbeats or sampling but the mood or inspiration from which those moments arise. The attempt to rerecord it seems, if you think about it, like a fool’s errand. You’re not capturing the arrangement of notes, per se. You’re catching the spirit. More here.
like salt in water,
what else besides God disappears at the altar?
O Kashmir, Armenia once vanished. Words are nothing,
just rumors– like roses– to embellish a slaughter.
[Agha Shahid Ali, A VILLANELLE]
a beautiful couple got married yesterday in a lovely interfaith ceremony – such fun with fam and gorgeous friends #rochesterny



an art show, sonnenberg gardens and mansion, and then lunch at nolan’s with ammi abbu today. all in #canandaigua

at a lovely mehndi organized by a lovely family with the love of my life – pictures by our daughter

excellent discussion about racism, islamophobia and anti-semitism with iraqi students who are here as part of the iraqi young leaders exchange program. such a bright and engaging group of young people from all over iraq. thank u to the brilliant Halima Aweis and Nate Baldo for continuing this important conversation that started at the islamic center of rochester, and thank u Rochester Global Connections for facilitating this meeting.


eid with ammi abbu in toronto where we had the pleasure to get together with family and friends

celebrating eid with wonderful friends and family in toronto. with my daughter near artisan market on queen street.

fantastic shoot yesterday, filmed by the brilliant dylan toombs, of a group #discussion between Fatimah Arshad, Sumayia Islam and Urvashi Bhattacharya for a film about the colonial depiction of women from south asia – can’t wait to see the footage.


back at monroe’s where ammi abbu love the food

Love, thick and dark as Alaga syrup, eased up into that cracked window. I could smell it—taste it—sweet, musty, with an edge of wintergreen in its base—everywhere in that house. It stuck, along with my tongue, to the frosted windowpanes. It coated my chest, along with the salve, and when the flannel came undone in my sleep, the clear, sharp curves of air outlined its presence on my throat. And in the night, when my coughing was dry and tough, feet padded into the room, hands repinned the flannel, readjusted the quilt, and rested a moment on my forehead. So when I think of autumn, I think of somebody with hands who does not want me to die.
[Toni Morrison, The Bluest Eye]
SIDDHARTHA DEB: I think there is a great deal of distress within India in terms of agriculture, in terms of livelihood. There are no jobs. There is drought. India seesaws between drought in large parts of the country and these unpredictable monsoons and floods. And so, there is a great deal of poverty and migration. And I think, in part, in Kashmir, what Modi has tried to do is two things.
For the poor in India, there has always been this story, this fake news produced by the BJP, that Kashmiri Muslims get special privileges. And the very raw example of this would be a political street address that I heard in Kolkata in passing, many years ago, where the BJP speaker was saying that, Kashmiris get subsidized meat from the Indian government for a price that you won’t even be able to buy dog meat in Kolkata. This is clearly directed at the large masses of the Indian poor, that Kashmiris — and this is said of other groups as well, including Indian Muslims— that they get special privileges. It’s similar to the “welfare queen” comments that Americans make about black minorities, that they get special privileges. And it plays into the same kind of majoritarianism, the same kind of sectarian nationalism. So, that’s one part of it.
The other part of it is for India’s BJP support, which is more elite, the business crowd. Now you can go into Kashmir and buy land. Social media is filled with Hindu right-wing supporters of Modi saying, “We will now marry Kashmiri women.” And you can see the settler-colonial, racist, sexist rhetoric at the heart of it. The idea is that they can now purchase land in Kashmir and basically turn it into an investment destination. So, that’s what Modi is doing – we are going to let more Hindus move into Kashmir.
I will just say one thing, though. Kashmir is not alone in this kind of protection of land rights. This is common in many border parts of India where there are minorities or indigenous people. This is true in many parts of the northeast, including the state where I grew up, in Meghalaya, where similar protection is in place and you cannot buy land if you are not from the indigenous groups there, in order to protect them from being swamped by people with much more access to capital. More here.
samosa chaat with ammi abbu
